Love yourself the way you want to be loved

If you want a partner who spoils you, start spoiling yourself. 

If you want a partner who compliments you, start complimenting yourself. 

If you want a partner who protects you, start protecting yourself.

If you want a partner who provides for you, start by providing for yourself.

If you want a partner who takes you on dates, start by going on dates by yourself (masturdating as I like to call it 😂)

If you want a partner who thinks the sun shines out your ass, start thinking that about yourself. 

The truth is that we will only ever be able to accept the love that we believe we deserve. If you aren’t treating yourself the way you want to be treated, it’s going to be incredibly difficult to find someone else who will. Love yourself with such ferocity that you would never accept anything less. So that by the time your partner does come into your life, you will actually be able to accept that love, and it will only be in addition to the love you already have, rather than your only source.